Saying Goodbye

Selmer would have been beaming from ear to ear. I can just see him sitting at a table, with a cup of coffee cupped in his large hands talking to one of his nephews, nieces or family member. He would have loved to see all his loved ones, remaining sister, but many nieces and nephews and grandchildren and great grandchildren... all those who could come, at his memorial service. It was a good day. The church was packed with family and friends who traveled as far as California, Washington State, Colorado, Arizona and who knows where else just to pay their last respects. Selmer had 11 great grandchildren, 13 grandchildren, countless nieces and nephews, grand nieces and nephews, one remaining sister and her family along with many community, bowling golf and church friends. What a lovely tribute to the man who started out without a family, as he was orphaned as a 6 year old boy, and in his last day of rememberence a complete and loving family that he built and nurtured, filled the room. Everyone gathered and talked in the entry way, not quite knowing what to do at a memorial service in contrast to a funeral. There's no viewing and paying last respects. Although Carol put together a great photo display chronicling his life. Once the ceremony started, Doug shared a few memories and Greg eulogized Selmer's life, sharing the day he and Doug were able to pray with Selmer and then Selmer's own real and visable encounter with Christ on Easter Sunday. The text is posted on the memorial website http://www.selmer-hanson.forevermissed.com/. Betty concluded the ceremony with her own personal and loving memories of her Dad. Adam Josh and Jordy played and sang Grace Like Rain, we said the apostles creed, which I still know by heart from my days in confirmation. Braums Lulaby was played by Sena on piano and Ben on the Viola. According to the bulletin, the Lutheran Funeral service is a Worship service. The Lutherans still have not gotten over their knack for high pitched hymns in a low pitched world. We all tried to screech a hearty Great is Thy Faithfulness in one accord as the final hymn.

The pastor found Selmer's confirmation verse, which I didn't know they gave. His was Psalms 37: Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. This verse fit Selmer's life as I see it. Apparently he was confirmed in the country church that merged with this one, which I didn't know... his confirmation photo was in the lobby.  

The service ended and the American Legion gave Doris a flag in remembrence of his days in the military. It was a lovely tribute to Selmer and there were many tears by the men presenting the flag. And of course there was a little lunch afterwards in the kitchen and everyone stayed to reminisce. The ladies aide served delicious, cheesey potatoes, ham, buns and cake. There were so many people there, they ran out of food for them all.